There are often scenes that are etched on our minds even after the viewing experience has long since passed. When one thinks of powerful scenes, they are flooded with movie frames with some of the most memorable dialogues and sometimes frames devoid any dialogues. There is the 'you can't handle the truth' moment in A few good men (1992), the musical marvel of the famous shower scene in Pyscho (1960), and The Godfather (1972) scene that features a horse head on a bed (with lots of blood!). Some honorable mentions have to be that of Jaws' (I know, I just can't get enough of this one!) 'you need a bigger boat' moment and Deep Blue Sea's Samuel Jackson's death scene. They are scenes that were packed with power. The power was wielded on account of the emotions these scenes could manifest in the viewer. The sheer fear when we see the dead horse or, a bodiless hand with a knife going at Janet Leigh when she's at her most vulnerable, and excitement of feeling what Tom Cruise feels at that gotcha moment have made these scenes remain etched on our minds for as long as they have.
But there are other scenes which have just struck a chord with me simply because of the subtlety with which certain sensitive and necessary themes were handled, and social issues implicated. The scenes I mention here all star women and (unfortunately) do not pass the Bechdel test. In spite of not passing the test, in no way do these scenes skirt away critical issues of feminism.
The first one I must mention is from a Tamil movie, Varane Avashyamund (2020) in which the protagonist is an already engaged Nikki who has a meeting with her soon to be mother in law who informs her that her son wishes to call off the wedding because Nikki had a romantic relationship prior to meeting him. A shellshocked Nikki tries to reason that his father may not have liked her, to which the older lady responds succinctly that she had thought her son was like her but turned out to be like her husband. She says, 'I am glad you are not coming in our home, you will not be happy'. This scene took me by surprise. Each and every dialogue is heavily laden with feminist critique. When Nikki tries to reason, she does not fault the guy, but seems to feel some kind of guilt, as though she indeed was impure for having loved more than once. The older woman is the surprising voice of reason who stands tall against the typical trope of a strict and protective mother in law, who calls out her son's fault but sadly cannot do much beyond protecting the protagonist to some extent. The two women are never shown in the same frame throughout this scene. It's as though they belong from different sides of the narrative, and yet they are not shown face to face, butting heads- very contradictory. (Of course this reading of the frame maybe my projection and naive interpretation as an inchoate movie buff, but I could not help but notice this!)
The other scene is from the super famous Guess Who's Coming to Dinner (1967). In this scene we see Katherine Hepburn who after just having found out about her daughter's decision to marry someone from another race, is met with her employee from the art gallery. The employee encounters Sidney Poitier and Katherine Houghton and is visibly shaken to see them behaving as though a romantic couple. She immediately calls on Hepburn and calls her a 'poor dear' when they are out of hearing distance from the rest. She asks, 'what are you going to do about it?'. Hepburn (Oh the brilliant Hepburn!) in, I believe one of the most fabulously acted scenes, stops her mid sentence and gives her the most clear instructions ever. She seats her in the car and instructs her to go to the art gallery and write herself a cheque and remove absolutely everything from the office that could remind Hepburn of her and 'permanently get lost'. Phew! It gives me a rush even as I write this! Such a brilliant scene. It had me laughing, smiling and crying all at once. The scene ends with Hepburn's classic hand wave to direct the car away. Hepburn till this point in the movie had voiced neither support nor disdain towards her daughter's relationship. But at this very moment, we see her stance and we heave a sigh of relief, thinking that all is not lost. Till this moment, the audience wonders, are the parents genuine liberals, and at this moment that debate is put to rest to some extent. Through the rest of the movie we see her as a thoughtful woman with an opinion who stands tall in support of her daughter often chiding her husband and calling his double standards out.
Both these scenes stuck with me because they caught me by surprise. I did not see the women's responses coming. And the classic belief that women often reproduce preexisting social inequities amongst their brethren, are challenged in some ways through such nuanced screenplays. Of course, there are other great scenes which do not showcase as much hope. One example is from the Hindi movie Thappad (2020) in one of the concluding scenes where the protagonist has one last conversation with her mother in law.
These scenes may not go down in history as academy award winning moments, but they are true to human spirit. These are not moments of outright women empowerment, but they stand as instances of dissenting women in the face of rampant social inequities. They hold the power to move any woman or any empath who holds the power to gauge human suffering. I may have missed out other great scenes, but these were the ones that I must emphasize demand a viewing (along with the movie of course!).